As any happy couple will tell you, whether newly dating or married for 50 years, the key to keeping the romance in a relationship alive is making date night a priority. As you dive into the whirlwind of wedding planning, it’s easy for date nights to take a backseat to the ever-growing checklists. However, prioritizing regular date nights during this busy time is crucial for maintaining a strong, healthy relationship and keeping the spark alive!

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It’s important to set aside one day per month to spend quality time with your partner without the distraction of wedding planning. We suggest picking a date that coincides with the wedding date, such as the 22nd of each month. It can be anything from a day at the spa, a romantic candlelight dinner, or binge-watching your favorite shows in your pajamas. The common denominator is quality time! And remember, leave the wedding talk off the table; tomorrow is another day to discuss wedding details.

 Date nights provide an opportunity to reconnect with your partner on a deeper level, allow you to unwind and enjoy each other’s company to help alleviate the pressure of planning, injects a sense of fun and excitement into the wedding planning process, and sends a clear message that your relationship comes first!

 Below are 4 easy ways to keep date nights top of mind:

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Establish a No Wedding Talk Night 

Planning a wedding doesn’t mean you have to spend every waking moment discussing it. Of course, in the beginning when excitement is at its peak, it may be all you want to chat about, but believe me by week 24, you are going to need a break! Talking about the wedding constantly puts you in a planning tizzy, and that is not healthy individually or as a couple.  Taking some time off from wedding planning chit chat will allow both of you to destress and reconnect on an emotional level. We promise the cake flavors, entertainment choices and centerpieces will still be there tomorrow.

Try Something New…Together 

Inject some excitement and new life into your relationship by trying out some new activities together as a couple…and we do not mean venue touring. Carve out some time to take a cooking class, explore a new city, or adopt a new hobby. Fuel your curiosity all while you strengthen your bond and passion for one another. Leave the wedding planning behind for the moment and be open-minded, you may just discover something about yourself or your partner that you didn’t know! 

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Add in Solo Date Nights

You are about to sign up for forever, so taking some “me-time” every now and then can do you a world of good. Everyone needs time alone, even newly engaged, madly in love couples.  Socializing with friends and spending time apart will give you the time you need to rejuvenate, have fun and unwind as an individual. So go to the gym, plan a hike with the guys or brunch with your girls, and take some time for yourself during these hectic months of wedding planning. 

Infuse Romance Into Wedding Tasks

While there is nothing alluring about picking out wedding color schemes, there are many “to-do’s” that can be fun and perhaps even a little romantic. If you are doing some of your tastings at home, turn it into a picnic. Need to learn some moves for your first dance, there is nothing better than practicing in your own living room or better yet, take some dance lessons. If you are going to have a slideshow at your wedding, looking through old photos and reminiscing about your life together, all the fun you have had and all the “firsts” you have experienced together is both sweet and intimate. Infusing passion into these tasks is a wonderful way to prioritize your relationship amidst the wedding planning journey.

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Wedding planning shouldn’t overshadow romance. Don’t put your relationship on hold; you owe it to yourselves to cherish this truly unique time in your lives. Keep discovering each other and envisioning your future together. While the wedding is a significant moment, it’s just one chapter in your love story. Remember the love that has brought you to this exciting point in your lives

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If you’re in the Atlanta area, here are 10 fantastic date night ideas we’re sure you’ll adore:

1. Beltline and Ponce City Market – A dynamic combination of a scenic urban trail and a vibrant food hall and shopping destination, perfect for couples who enjoy a mix of outdoor exploration, art installations, diverse culinary experiences, and unique artisanal shops. https://poncecitymarket.com/getting-here // https://beltline.org/
2. The Painted Pin – A trendy bowling alley with a vintage vibe, perfect for couples who enjoy a mix of retro fun and upscale ambiance. https://www.thepaintedpin.com/
3. Starlight Drive-In Theatre – A classic outdoor drive-in cinema with a nostalgic charm, perfect for couples who enjoy retro movies and a cozy, old-school date night experience. https://starlightdrivein.com/nowplaying/
4. Puttshack – A high-tech mini-golf venue with interactive courses and lively ambiance, ideal for couples who love friendly competition and modern entertainment. https://www.puttshack.com/
5. Pasta Making Class at Grana – An interactive culinary experience where couples can learn to make fresh pasta together, appealing to food-loving couples seeking a hands-on and delicious date night. https://www.granaatl.com/classes-events-dunwoody
6. Sips Under the Sea – Be on the look up for an exclusive after-hours event at the Georgia Aquarium with cocktails and marine life, perfect for couples who enjoy unique and enchanting underwater adventures. https://www.georgiaaquarium.org/event-calendar/
7. Chateau Elan Winery – A picturesque winery with vineyard tours and wine tastings, appealing to couples who appreciate fine wines and a romantic, scenic setting. https://www.chateauelan.com/
8. Candlelight Orchestra – An elegant concert featuring classical music in a candlelit setting, perfect for couples who appreciate refined and romantic musical performances. https://feverup.com/en/atlanta/candlelight
9. Jeju Spa – A serene Korean spa offering relaxation and rejuvenation with various treatments and thermal facilities, appealing to couples seeking a tranquil and pampering date night experience. https://jejusauna.com/
10. Cocktail Making Class at Sebastian Restaurant – An interactive mixology experience where couples can learn to craft delicious cocktails together, appealing to couples who enjoy hands-on activities, creative libations, and a fun and educational date night. \https://www.instagram.com/sebastianpintxosbar/

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