While we’re familiar with the customary American wedding traditions such as tossing the bouquet, something borrowed and something blue, exchanging of the rings, and first dances, there’s a world of diverse and captivating wedding customs waiting to be explored. This blog series invites you to join us as we delve into the extraordinary wedding traditions of countries across the globe, offering a glimpse into the rich cultural celebrations that make each wedding unique and special.

Japan is a place where ancient traditions meet modern innovation, and its weddings are no exception. With a mix of intricate ceremonies and symbolic rituals, Japanese weddings are all about tradition, elegance, and spiritual significance. So, let’s dive in and uncover four fascinating customs that make Japanese weddings truly special.

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1. Shinto Ceremony: At the heart of a traditional Japanese wedding is the Shinto ceremony, a sacred and spiritual ritual that symbolizes the union of the couple. Held at a Shinto shrine, the ceremony is presided over by a Shinto priest and is characterized by the purity and reverence of the surroundings. The bride is adorned in a stunning white kimono, called “shiro-muku,” symbolizing purity and exuding elegance, while the groom wears a black kimono called “montsuki hakama”, signifying formality. Purification rituals, the exchange of symbolic items, and the offering of prayers to the divinities are integral parts of the Shinto wedding ceremony to seal their commitment to each other.

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2. San-san-kudo – Three Sets of Three Sips: A central element of the Shinto wedding ceremony is the San-san-kudo, a ritual that involves the couple and their parents taking three sets of three sips from three different cups of sake. Each sip symbolizes the couple’s transition into married life, as well as the bond between the families. The act of sharing sake represents the blending of the couple’s spirits and the harmonious union of their families.

3. Exchange of Rings and Vows: The exchange of rings and vows in a Japanese wedding is a poignant and heartfelt moment that signifies the couple’s commitment to each other. The rings, often made of pure gold, are exchanged as a symbol of eternal love and fidelity. The couple also recites vows, expressing their promises and devotion to each other, creating an atmosphere of sincerity and mutual respect.

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4. Shugi-bukuro – Gift-Giving Ritual: During the wedding reception, a customary gift-giving ritual known as Shugi-bukuro takes place. Guests present the newlyweds with envelopes containing monetary gifts, symbolizing their support and best wishes for the couple’s future. The act of giving and receiving these gifts is a gesture of goodwill and a tangible expression of communal celebration and support.

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Influenced by Western culture, numerous brides now opt for white gowns and Christian church weddings, regardless of their religious affiliation. Other widely embraced wedding customs encompass the cake cutting, ring exchange, bouquet toss, and honeymoon traditions.

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