Picture this: you just got engaged (congratulations, by the way!), and you’ve hired the perfect wedding planner. A few days into planning, she asks, “Would you like to include any special ceremonies within your wedding ceremony?” Now, if you’re anything like me, your first reaction might be, “Wait, what?” But once you stop and think about it, chances are you’ve seen or heard of some beautiful traditions over the years — like lighting a unity candle, blending sand, or jumping the broom. Maybe you’ve even imagined weaving one of those moments into your own big day. If that time has come for you, don’t worry — we’re here to help you find the perfect sacred ceremony to celebrate and symbolize your love!

Here are a few that we’ve witnessed over the last few years… What are some that you’re considering?

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Jumping the Broom

Jumping the broom is a joyful tradition rooted in African and African American history, symbolizing sweeping away the old and stepping into a new life together. It became a sacred ritual among enslaved Africans denied legal marriage. Today, it honors resilience, culture, and family legacy — often done at the end of the ceremony with music, cheers, and a decorated broom the couple keeps as a special keepsake.

Sage Smudging

Sage Smudging is a sacred Indigenous practice using burning sage to cleanse negative energy and invite protection and healing. It’s a beautiful way to bless your wedding space and start your marriage with clear, positive energy. If you include this tradition, it’s important to honor its cultural roots and use sustainably sourced sage.

Tasting of the Four Elements

This sensory ritual invites couples to experience Earth, Water, Fire, and Air — symbolizing the balance, passion, emotion, and dreams that will shape their life together. Bread or chocolate (Earth), a sip of water, something spicy (Fire), and a fragrant herb or breath (Air) create a meaningful and memorable unity ceremony.

Tying the Knot

Yes, “tying the knot” is more than just a saying! In this ancient ritual, the couple’s hands are bound together with a cord or ribbon to symbolize their union. Rooted in Celtic, Hindu, and other traditions, it’s a deeply personal, visual way to honor your love and commitment.

Libation Ceremony

The libation ceremony involves pouring water, wine, or spirits to honor ancestors and invite their blessings over the marriage. Performed early in the ceremony, it sets a sacred tone and reminds everyone that love is a legacy passed through generations. It’s a beautiful way to blend cultural traditions and honor your roots.

Ketubah Signing

In Jewish weddings, signing the Ketubah — a beautifully designed marriage contract — is a powerful, emotional moment. It outlines the couple’s commitments and is usually signed in anintimate gathering before the ceremony. Today, many couples personalize their Ketubah to reflect shared values of love, respect, and partnership, keeping it as a cherished piece of their new life together.

Breaking the Glass

A powerful moment in Jewish weddings, breaking the glass reminds us that even in our greatest moments of joy, life can be fragile. Traditionally, the groom (or couple) steps on the glass, and everyone shouts “Mazel Tov!” It’s a beautiful way to honor resilience, commitment, and the truth that marriage, like life, must be nurtured with care and love.

Money Dance

Rooted in Filipino, Mexican, and African American traditions, the money dance is as joyful as it is meaningful. Guests pin bills onto the couple’s clothing as they dance, offering blessings, well-wishes, and a little financial support for their new life together. It’s a fun, festive way to involve everyone and celebrate community, abundance, and love!

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